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Launchings and Landings: A couples’ practice

To maintain a steady growth in your relating, I suggest that as a couple you create a simple ritual to do twice daily. Upon awakening (launching) and before falling asleep (landing), create some connecting time. Gazing in each others eyes, the belly to belly...

Grow up! Show up! Man up!

Secrets to Satisfying Sex (For men only) Whether single or coupled, or whatever your relationship path is, these tips will almost guarantee more sex satisfaction in your life. If single, this is how you will potentially attract a partner; and if coupled, this is how...

Clearing Model or The Awakening Process

Ram Dass: The universe is made up of experiences that are designed to burn out our reactivity, which is our attachment, our clinging, to pain, to pleasure, to fear, to all of it. And as long as there are places where we’re vulnerable, the universe will find ways to...

Dealing with Death and Suicide

Grief can be medicine for the soul! A health of a community can be measured in our ability to grieve. Death, suicide offers us a chance to be human, to break out of our numbness or our heads in order to feel and emote; to remember we have hearts. We move from an...

Intelligence can destroy your intimacy!

Have I got your attention now? This is what I mean by this statement.  We are all incredibly intelligent beings.  Our developed mind craves newness and discovery.  We get bored with doing the same thing all the time.  We need stimulation and energy that is new.  This...